Have you ever had a song transport you to a totally different time and place?
Today’s good deed: APOLOGIZE TO SOMEONE YOU’VE WRONGED
I listened to the album The Way It Is by Bruce Hornsby and the Range. It takes me back … and dates me.
Before you go judging my musical choices, just remember this album won the group the Grammy for Best New Artist. So … there.
The song Mandolin Rain took me back to when I was working in an amusement park in Ohio. The drinking age was still 18 … and I was 19 whole years old. I fell in love with a Dixieland trombone player. He was tall, light and handsome. He was also funny, smart and older than me. He swept me off my feet. Trouble is, I was dating someone else at the time.
My current boyfriend, sweet as he was, drove up to visit me … and saw me kissing the new boy.
Breakups are always tough. Betrayal makes it worse. It’s not my fault I fell for someone else. The heart wants what it wants. But I could have definitely handled the situation better.
We’ve all had our hearts broken. We all know how completely miserable it feels. The first guy I ever loved smashed my heart into bits. I got a happy ending though. 20 years later he found me on Facebook … and apologized for his behavior. Who expects THAT miracle?!? I’m still flabbergasted by it!
That email repaired a little piece of my heart. My ex was so kind to write it. I wanted to give that same extraordinary gift to someone else. So I wrote my ex. My other ex. Ex 3 out of 246.
I was a little nervous to send it. I still am. I don’t know how he’ll react. A little weight is gone though.
It’s never too late to admit when we’ve done something wrong, even if it was (mumble a number into my hand) years ago. We all make mistakes. We all act childish. That’s just the way it is. Some things will never change.
Ah … but don’t you believe them.
Photo (Flickr CC) by David Goehring
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